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I call the meeting to order.
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Welcome to meeting number 130 of the House of Commons Standing Committee on the Status of Women.
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I would like to remind all members of the following points.
Please wait until I recognize you by name prior to speaking. I remind you that all comments ought to be addressed through the chair.
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Thank you all for your co‑operation in that respect.
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Pursuant to Standing Order 108(2) and the motion adopted by the committee on Wednesday, September 25, 2024, the committee will continue its study on gender-based violence and femicides against women, girls and gender-diverse people.
Before we welcome our witnesses, I would like to provide a trigger warning. We will be discussing experiences related to violence and femicides. This may be triggering to viewers with similar experiences. If indeed at any point you are feeling distressed or need help, please advise the clerk.
For all witnesses and for all members of Parliament, it's very important that we recognize that these are very difficult discussions, and we ought to be compassionate with our conversations.
For today's panel, I'd like to welcome Sunder Singh, who is with the Elspeth Heyworth Centre for Women. She's executive director and is joining us by video conference.
From Fédération des maisons d’hébergement pour femmes, we have Julie St-Pierre Gaudreault, policy issues adviser, joining us by video conference. We're also joined by video conference by Manon Monastesse, executive director with the Fédération des maisons d'hébergement pour femmes.
We also have Dr. Amanda Buffalo, adviser, Liard Aboriginal Women's Society.
There's been a little bit of movement with some of our witnesses who have had some trouble with their technology, so I'm trying to make sure we have the right ones here.
Last, of course, we have Jill Young in the room. She is chief executive officer of the Alberta Council of Women’s Shelters.
Welcome to all witnesses and of course to all members.
We will begin with opening statements of five minutes from each organization.
To begin, I'd like to welcome Ms. Singh. The floor is yours for five minutes.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
My name is Sunder Singh. I am the executive director of the Elspeth Heyworth Centre for Women, otherwise known as the EHCW, located in Toronto and in the city of Vaughan.
Victims of domestic violence visit these centres, and anywhere from 100 to 300 cases come in every year. We witness the victims' helplessness in fighting the legal system and law enforcement, including child protection agencies that, as we have experienced in many cases, do not understand the terror of the abused victims who are being threatened with having their children being taken away due to their emotional outbursts. Emotional outbursts are recorded as mental instability.
We have seen cases of mothers being accused of having a mental disturbance when it was an emotional outcry at losing their children. They are crying for help, but the children are taken away because the abuser is perceived as polite, calm and convincing—but he is a chronic manipulator.
At the centre, we witnessed a classic story of a woman arriving from another country as a new bride. She married out of love to a man who had been previously married. His first wife ran away from him. Now he was seeking a new wife so that his abuse could continue. When the new bride, whom I will call Cindy, arrived in Canada, full of love for her husband, she faced domestic violence from him and her mother-in-law.
When Cindy was pregnant, he broke her arm, affecting her elbow. She went through surgery to save her elbow. He broke the same arm again, seriously affecting the movement of her elbow. She gave birth to a child, whom she carried precariously in one arm. The other arm was damaged. Her husband continued to beat her.
She came to the centre asking for help. She was placed in housing and landed a good job in her field. She was an accountant. She was on her way to self-sufficiency, away from her husband, but then the luring and apologies started, and false promises were made to her by her husband. She agreed to go back to him. The man started to record her each and every movement. She was not aware.
Her mother-in-law spread oil all over the kitchen for her to slip on and fall at night when she came to fetch milk for her child. She fell and permanently damaged her elbow.
The husband recorded a video in which she was precariously changing the diaper of the child with one hand and the other damaged arm. The child was kicking and she was stopping the child from kicking. He took a portion of that video and gave it to the police. The police handed the video to the child protection agency, which threatened Cindy with the removal of her child. This started a panic. She talked non-stop with the loud cry of a torn mother and repeatedly tried to express to anyone who could hear her that she was alone in this country and violently abused, and now law enforcement and the child protection agency were taking her child away.
When the EHCW inquired, it was revealed that the child protection agency was not at all aware that the husband had been violently abusing Cindy.
The child protection agency provided evidence to the court projecting Cindy to be a mother who was mentally unstable. The child was given to the father.
Cindy's doctor, her teacher and the police had reported the abuse and wrote letters clearly stating that the child should remain with the mother. Because she was unable to control her emotions, this went against her with some of the organizations she was supposed to trust.
Disgusted by the legal system, she left the country and went to the United States to live with her family. She's now using a fake account to remain secretly connected to her son. Mother and son are patiently waiting until he is of an adult age so that he can be reunited with his mother.
Are bodies that provide protection effectively safeguarding mothers and children? Law enforcement is doing good work. However, it needs to be aware of how mothers become traumatized when threatened with being ripped apart from their children.
Shelters are running at full capacity, and housing for women facing violence is not easily available either. Why is this issue not a serious societal problem for the government?
Why are the abusers placed in jail for two days, two weeks or two years when the life of a woman is completely destroyed emotionally? She is as good as dead. Children are affected permanently. Why are the abusers not in jail for a lifetime? If they were, violence would be reduced instantly.
Please make domestic violence training for all judges in the court system a mandatory requirement. This would help safeguard women.
Thank you.
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Good morning. My name is Manon Monastesse and I'm executive director of the Fédération des maisons d'hébergement pour femmes. With me today is our policy issues advisor Julie St‑Pierre Gaudreault.
The Fédération des maisons d'hébergement pour femmes represents 60 shelters in Quebec, both first-line or emergency shelters and second-stage shelters. We're the only association in Quebec that welcomes any woman who is a victim of violence against women, not just women who are victims of domestic violence. So we take in women who are victims of multiple forms of violence, including sexual assault, domestic violence, sexual exploitation or honour-based violence, for example.
In terms of our capacity to accommodate, our occupancy rate is currently 106%. When women call us, we unfortunately have to turn them away because we don't have enough room. That translates into 11,000 women who are refused our services.
As you know, there have been about 20 femicides in Quebec. Of the women we take in, 26% tell us they have been victims of death threats or attempted murder. In addition, 25% want to file a complaint, as opposed to 38% who don't. In Quebec, we now have specialized courts for sexual and domestic violence, but they haven't yet been established in all judicial districts. We will see what impact they have on how much women who are victims of violence trust in our justice system.
You may recall the landmark report published in Quebec entitled “Rebâtir la confiance”, which was about rebuilding that trust among female victims. The report contained 190 recommendations. Some recommendations have been implemented, but only fairly recently. So in the next few years, we will be able to better gauge the impact of this report and the various measures taken.
We have concerns about the federal government's national action plan to end gender-based violence, more specifically about meeting the objectives and implementing the plan's foundation. We're also part of the Women's Shelters Canada network, and we can see that women unfortunately still don't have access to the same services or the same quality of service across the country.
The implementation of the national action plan is built on a solid foundation made up of three components.
As we know, the first component is leadership, coordination and engagement.
The second component is data. In this regard, it must be said that Statistics Canada reports pose a major problem for us, because they don't take into account power relationships, domination relationships and, among other things, coercive control. We're dealing with data that's based on a symmetric distribution of the genders, and that's not at all consistent with the data from our provincial reports. I think it's the same thing across Canada. We've been speaking out against Statistics Canada's methodology for years. Therefore, we need data across Canada that truly reflects the state of affairs when it comes to violence against women.
There's also the third component, reporting and monitoring.
In our view, the way progress on the three components is measured poses a problem. Accountability-wise, the measures implemented under the federal action plan should undergo a comprehensive assessment and should be aligned with provincial ones.
We are therefore very supportive of the findings in the report released by the Women's Legal Education and Action Fund, which calls on the federal government to create a gender-based violence commissioner. The commissioner's office would be an independent mechanism responsible for ensuring accountability, assessing the situation across the country and determining how the many provincial action plans align with the federal government's. The idea would be, first, to better identify best practices and, second, to see how federal leadership can—
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Good afternoon. I am the founder of La Maison des Guerrières, but I am also a victim who was left for dead.
The system is full of holes, and we are still trying to understand why. In my case, I was left for dead 30 years ago, and nothing has changed since. I would even say that things have gotten worse.
Court delays are appallingly long. We tell women to go to shelters that they have to leave two or three months later. Where are their violent spouses then? They are still there when the women leave the shelter. There should be no court delays. The courts should act right away.
We tell women to leave their homes, their furniture, their possessions, their jobs, everything they have, even though they are the victims and their spouses are the violent ones. In Quebec, no therapy is available for these violent men; there is no place where they can go for help. I think we need to build homes for violent men and put those men there. Instead of basic therapy once a week, they should have to undergo full-time therapy with experts who could appear in court and explain the danger these men pose. As other witnesses have pointed out, it's the victim's word against the perpetrator's in court. The women are often very emotional. I was when I went to court. I was a victim who had been left for dead, so naturally, I was crying, I was very emotional, I was scared.
We also have a lot of issues with our youth protection branch in Quebec. I deal with those cases in my job. All women who are victims of domestic violence have their children taken away from them, either because they are accused of being alienating or because their situations are considered separation disputes. Domestic violence is not a separation dispute. Women suffer the violence, and the children see it happen. The children are just as much victims as their mothers.
The child protection workers we deal with are not well trained. They do not understand the situation. To them, the man is a nice guy, a good guy, but he is a manipulator who is manipulating all of society. When people see these stories in the news, they always say how nice and polite so-and-so was and how they never would have suspected he would do something like that. The same thing happens in the child protection system. The people working in the system aren't at all able to assess the situation correctly. When I get involved in cases, I see that the caseworkers are totally incapable of recognizing domestic violence. They see the situation as a separation dispute. The mother has left everything. She has lost everything, and on top of it all, her children are taken away and handed back over to a violent father. That is serious.
As I said, the justice system is the same. I testify in court in all the cases I work on, and judges have absolutely no understanding of domestic violence. It's the mother's word against the father's. However, the mother is not always able to record, or provide evidence of, her bruises, the blows she suffered or everything that happened in the home.
The most important thing I want to talk to about today pertains to the court delays. I have clients who wait two, even three, years before they get to testify against their attacker in a criminal proceeding. That whole time, the women are living in constant fear. They cannot stay in women's shelters forever. These violent men have access to them at all times. It's no trouble; they can use Facebook or some other way to find their victims. They go to their workplace, or they follow the kids after school or some other family member.
Cases involving domestic violence should be dealt with by a judge right away, on a priority basis. That's how it works in cases involving the youth protection branch. The branch can intervene in an emergency. Victims of domestic violence should have the same rights. Women should be the ones able to roam free, while the men are put someplace. They are the guilty ones. They are the ones who should go to a centre or home for follow-up.
That is my message for you today.
The Liard Aboriginal Women's Society has made our submission to the standing committee, and we have a bunch of reference documents that we've sent along.
What I want to impart to the committee is that indigenous women and girls are reluctant to report violence to police, especially in the territory. There's significant violence that goes on with respect to the extractive resource industries in the Yukon. The National Inquiry into MMIWG and the May 2022 report from the Canadian Feminist Alliance for International Action provided evidence of RCMP misogyny, racism and sexualized violence against indigenous women, and we feel the effects, certainly, of that in the territory.
For as long as resource extraction industries have claimed unceded territories of our peoples, indigenous nations have resisted the unsustainable colonial state and the extractive industry practices enforced by the RCMP of land theft, dispossession and violence against women.
We thank the committee for undertaking a study on the national crisis of gender-based violence and femicide and present recommendations for action and consideration.
Kaska Dena, our matriarchal society composed of Tsíyōnéʼ Dena and Mésgâ Dena, which are wolf clan and crow clan respectively, and LAWS, as we're known, uphold the Kaska Dena traditional law of Dene Ā’Nezen, which is to care for our lands and waters as our relations.
We reject the unjust free entry mining regime that allows anyone to put up stakes to act over indigenous lands without the free, prior and informed consent of Kaska rights holders. This regime has resulted in significant harms to women and caused environmental, social, cultural, economic and spiritual damage in Dene Kēyeh, which are our Kaska Dena unceded territories. The 25-square-kilometre abandoned Faro lead-zinc mine site is one such example of this destruction. Contamination reaches far beyond the mine site.
LAWS opposes the violence against indigenous women and girls and the environmental damage that accompany colonial resource development practices. We want to heal the scars on our women and our lands.
We have a number of reports that we have tabled, which you will see in the notes. What I do want to say is that we've done studies, we've been on the ground and we know the damage that is done by these industries. So that you understand, in numbers, between 2014 and 2021, there were seven femicides in the Yukon, six of which were indigenous women.
Indigenous women represent 86% of the victims of femicide in the Yukon during that time period. That is also the highest rate of femicide against indigenous women in Canada. In Kaska country, this is particularly important, because Kaska Dena women represent more than 50% of all missing and murdered indigenous women and girls in the Yukon.
Our work has been around demonstrating how the mining industry's colonial ethic of exploitation degrades ways that indigenous and racialized women mine workers are treated in male-dominated workplaces, in camp living conditions and in our communities. We talk a lot in the studies that we've submitted to you about workplace health and sexualized assault safety regulations within the camps, but also within our communities. Reporting is particularly problematic, because our women are afraid to go to the RCMP or to the authorities, and we want to do more to keep our women safe in our communities.
I'll ask that you refer to the document provided to review the submissions, but I have some recommendations for action as well.
We want to ask the standing committee to recognize that the use of euphemistic terms like “development” and “resource development” that imply growth, progress and positive change fail to account for the reality of the colonial projects in Canada. Indigenous peoples are displaced in order to steal lands and resources for the economic, political and social benefit of private corporations, settlers and the state: provincial, territorial and federal governments. The historic settler colonial practices of extracting furs, forests, fish, minerals and other resources have enacted violence on indigenous peoples; devalued our social, cultural and political roles, particularly of indigenous women in our communities; and harmed the physical environment, plant and animal habitat, and human existence. These practices continue. This violence must stop.
LAWS respectfully asks the Standing Committee on the Status of Women to take the following recommended actions.
First, with regard to financial resources, advocate all-party support to provide adequate government funding for long-term sustainable core funding for indigenous women's organizations; funding for the creation of industry-wide and enforceable policies informed by women with lived experience, particularly in the extractive resource industry, and for women's advocacy NGOs to respect indigenous sovereignty and the safety of indigenous women and girls; and funding for more research studies, per the “Reclaiming Power and Place” report.
With regard to the second area, accountability, ensure that Canada complies with its obligations to respect, protect and fulfill women's equality rights and the human rights of indigenous peoples under domestic and international law through its UN universal periodic review and sustainable development goals reports as well as law and policy reform, and use GBA+ policy analysis to fund indigenous women's participation and include indigenous women in decision-making roles for environmental and socio-economic assessment reviews of extractive industry proposals.
The third area is implementation. For the TRC, the “Reclaiming Power and Place” report, the calls for justice, the Aboriginal Justice Inquiry and the Royal Commission on Aboriginal Peoples, the government needs to ensure that this work is adequately funded in order for our communities to work towards implementing recommendations, calls to justice and calls to action.
Finally, with regard to reconciliation and restoration, the cost for implementing recommendations for justice and reconciliation and for the restoration of lands alienated from indigenous peoples should be covered by government and industry, which have reaped and continued to reap the profits from extractive resource industry projects.
The Liard Aboriginal Women’s Society is a non-governmental organization. We've been around for 25 years. We know the lay of the land, and we're really here today to encourage you to take action to help us end violence in our own communities and to help us ensure that future generations aren't fighting the same fight in another 25 years from now.
Sógá sénlá'.
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Thank you for the opportunity to speak today.
I am Jill Young, the CEO of YWCA Lethbridge and District. I'm representing just some of the voices of my community in Lethbridge, Alberta.
The national scope of this crisis is staggering. At least one woman or girl is killed every two and a half days in Canada, most often by a male. Indigenous women and girls are 12 times more likely to be murdered or go missing than other women in Canada. In 2022 alone, 868 children were left without their mothers due to femicide.
Over four in 10 women have endured some form of intimate partner violence in their lifetimes, and nearly one-third of women over the age of 15 report experiencing sexual assault. That means if I look around at the women sitting here today on this committee, at least four of you have experienced some form of intimate partner violence.
These figures are haunting, and we are witnessing their impacts on the ground every day in Lethbridge.
Lethbridge has some of the highest rates of intimate partner violence—which is a form of gender-based violence—in Alberta, with Statistics Canada reporting a rate well above the national average in 2022. Harbour House, the emergency shelter for women and children fleeing violence and the only one in Lethbridge, experienced a 15% increase in crisis calls over the last year alone. We were able to shelter 400 individuals throughout the year, yet due to capacity constraints, 827 individuals were unable to be sheltered. At the current rate, we anticipate that number could be close to 1,000 individuals this year.
Our shelter is also seeing a 31% increase in children needing refuge. These children are escaping traumatic situations only to find limited resources for their recovery and stability.
Lethbridge faces a unique set of challenges that contributes to these elevated rates of intimate partner violence. As a regional hub for southern Alberta, Lethbridge serves a large, diverse and often underserved population, including many rural and indigenous communities with limited access to resources. This influx increases the demand on local services, often stretching our resources to the breaking point. Additionally, socio-economic issues like higher-than-average rates of poverty and addiction in Lethbridge add to the complexity.
Financial instability and substance misuse are well-documented risk factors for intimate partner violence, making it even more challenging to break the cycle of abuse in our community. The economic pressures exacerbated by inflation, lack of affordable housing and limited mental health services further strain the capacity of organizations like ours to address and prevent intimate partner violence effectively.
These local factors echo what we know nationally: Gender-based violence is complex, systemic issue deeply rooted in long-standing gender inequality. Femicide and gender-based violence are not inevitable and they are preventable. As a society, we have the power to prevent these tragedies if we commit to addressing their root causes through a multipronged, coordinated approach.
The national action plan to end gender-based violence can be an invaluable road map, but its success depends on action, collaboration and accountability from leaders at every level of government. The national action plan launched in 2022, yet we still see forms of gender-based violence on the rise, and specifically sexual assault.
This requires the entire system working together, meaning federal, provincial and municipal levels working alongside organizations like ours to ensure these services are comprehensive and accessible. We need sustained investment in emergency shelter capacity, mental health support, trauma-informed services, affordable housing and culturally responsive programs. We cannot address gender-based violence without addressing the economic and social vulnerabilities that put women and children at risk.
We know what the statistics tell us and we know the root causes. We have thousands of hours of research and hundreds of reports on this issue at our fingertips. What we need now is decisive, multi-faceted action that brings together all of us to implement these solutions with urgency, commitment and accountability.
We need to know that the road map we are using leads to a reality where safety, equity and dignity are the standard for all women in Canada.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
Thank you to the witnesses for your excellent testimony.
I'm not a permanent member of this committee, and when I do come, there are some very heavy topics discussed here. Certainly this committee and the witnesses who come here deserve a lot of credit for their courage in bringing these issues forward, which, in my opinion, should be much more in the forefront of our political discussion than they are currently.
I have a number of questions for a number of you.
Madam Singh, thank you for your testimony. You asked at the end why abusers are only in jail for two days, two weeks or two years. I believe you said that they should be in jail for a lifetime, and that if they were, violence would be ended permanently. You also made the point, which I thought was quite a good point, that the violence lives for a lifetime with the woman who has been abused and her children. That was the sort of argument you made.
If you could design the justice system with women, victims and their children in mind, what specifically would you change about it? I know you have said that you would keep the abusers in jail forever. That's not necessarily an option—perhaps it is—but are there other things that you would do? Are there other things that you would do to fix the justice system?
I have a similar question for Ms. Martine Jeanson.
Martine, you were here, I believe, in November 2023. I'll read your quote back to you. I apologize; you likely said it in French, but I'll read you the English translation, if that's all right.
You said:
Everyone knows that abusers are arrested and then released. You can see it on television and hear it on radio. So women are afraid to report their abusers and don't want to do so because once he is released, he will automatically return home.
I feel that this is a very powerful point, because women have to get the courage and do all the work to finally report and go through the whole rigamarole and then have him perhaps spend a few days in jail, as the lady right before you said. They go through all of that and then have him come home. I would imagine that they would be very upset with what just took place and that a lot of women and others would be concerned about that.
Can you elaborate on your point and on how you would design the justice system to solve that issue?
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Women are scared precisely because they know that, when a man is arrested after being reported and then asked to sign a recognizance under section 810 of the Criminal Code, he will be immediately released. He is not put in jail. Women know that. What happens then? The stories are all over the TV news: femicide, the youth protection branch steps in and takes the children away from their family, and so it goes.
In my view, what it always comes down to is the basic design of the system. A violent man never has just one victim. Even if he goes to jail, he'll get out and inflict violence on other victims. I firmly believe that violent men need specialized therapy for violent men. That is our only hope of changing things.
We have to address the behaviours of violent men and try to understand what they are rooted in. I'm not talking about narcissistic perverts because, as I've always said, you can never change someone with narcissistic perversion. However, men who grow up seeing impulsive behaviours can become impulsive. Most children who grow up in families that experience domestic violence become violent people. That cycle has to stop. All of these people need help. Women need to rebuild their lives. Men need help to deal with their violent behaviour. Children need help too.
As soon as the police are called in, the violent man should be put into a facility.
I want to thank centres for women. I always say how lucky we are to have them. What do we do about the men, though? If they are left to their own devices, if no one works with them, they are never going to change. Throughout the course of their lives, they will leave more and more victims in their wake. They will become more and more violent.
When you look at the history of every man who ends up killing a woman, you see that there were many victims along the way.
In my case, after I was left for dead, my attacker victimized seven other people.
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Ms. Sidhu, sometimes the emotional violence can be extremely severe, to the point that the abuser will mentally hurt women.
All kinds of abuse of women are criminal activities. There is no one criminal activity that can weigh heavier than the others. When the abuser is abusing his partner, they use all sorts of abuse. They use emotional, financial and physical abuse.
What we experience is that most of the women who come to the centre talk about the abusers being very charismatic, very polite. They are very social in the community. They have a good standing in the community. However, at home, they are abusing their partners. The partners are in a very precarious situation when they are in a social environment. They don't know how to explain to the community, because the community will not believe them when they say that they're being abused. Emotional abuse can be very dangerous. It can have a huge impact on a woman.
It's not just the physical, but the emotional and the financial. The financial issue is heavy because a woman cannot leave her home, if she has little children, if she is not financially stable. Most women who are financially stable because they have a good job can leave that relationship instantly, but otherwise financial abuse, the financial control by the abuser, keeps the woman at home for abuse.
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I agree that it should be part of the Criminal Code and, as Madam Young stated, language is important, and we can't address things when we don't know what we're addressing. I would proffer for the committee that language is important in the way that we prosecute or seek justice as well.
In the court system now, violence gets mutualized in the language. We have a lot of work to do around training our justice, legal and punitive systems around clear and clean language that doesn't mutualize the violence or that doesn't put the responsibility of the actions of the perpetrator onto the victim. That, I think, is really an important piece of it.
That means talking about who did what to whom, and not letting “Jeff hit Jill”—I'm sorry, Jill—get changed in the court to, “Jill was hit,” and suddenly Jeff is gone, off in the night, and it's just Jill here having to deal with this.
I think that's a really important piece of it. As much as trauma-informed models brought us to where we are in this discussion, I think we need to move to violence-informed models that talk about who does what to whom, and we need to have dignity-driven practices that are committed to upholding the dignity of the victims and the survivors of violence.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
Thank you to the witnesses for being with us today to think about how we can reduce, if not eliminate, femicides. In short, we are looking for solutions.
My first questions are for the representatives of Fédération des maisons d'hébergement pour femmes, so Ms. St‑Pierre Gaudreault or Ms. Monastesse can answer.
In her opening remarks, Ms. Monastesse talked about what I see as crosscutting responsibilities. In other words, a number of sectors come into play in relation to femicides. That is why it is important to find ways to bring those sectors together, not just health and justice, but also the social system and safety net, taking into account things like the lack of housing. Basically, femicide is an issue that requires a broader response, and so, the discussion needs to focus on a number of sectors.
That was the approach taken by the panel of experts responsible for the Quebec report “Rebâtir la confiance”. The report focuses on supports for victims and their access to justice, and the recommendations address a number of sectors.
Would you like to comment on the need to address femicide at a broader level?
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You are right. A comprehensive approach is necessary, one that takes into account every aspect of these women's lives and quality of life. It has to address the health and social sectors as much as it does the justice system. An integrated response that brings together all sectors is needed to ensure women's safety.
The court system has been a frequent topic of discussion. The current court response is not good enough. It doesn't put victims at the centre of the judicial process. We have seen that violence against women and its impact on women and their children are poorly understood because justice system stakeholders do not have the necessary training.
It's the same for the health sector. Health professionals are not good at identifying the effects of violence against women. When women who have suffered injuries go to the hospital, in very few cases is violence identified as the cause. There again, it comes down to a lack of training.
Holes in the social safety net are also to blame. Women's shelters should not be the only organizations providing victims with the full range of supports they need. The response has to be coordinated and integrated. Many of the women who turn to us think twice about it. When they are thinking about leaving their violent partner, they wonder what will happen to them once they leave the shelter. It's also important not to overlook second-stage housing, where women can stay for three to five years as they rebuild their lives. Regardless, women wonder what they're going to do when they leave the shelter. Will they be able to afford a place to live? Will they find a good school for their kids? Will they find a new job? As we all know, women who leave abusive situations—whether it's domestic violence or another form of abuse—have to rebuild their lives from scratch. Unfortunately, some women choose to stay with their partner because society doesn't offer them the full range of supports they need.
How society responds to men with violent behaviours is equally important. Again, this is not limited to situations involving domestic violence. It includes exploitation rings, sexual assault, family violence, violence against parents at the hands of their children. It covers all the forms of violence that have been raised, ranging from financial abuse and verbal abuse to sexual violence.
That is why it is so important to make coercive control a crime. As we all know, violence offences in the Criminal Code are based solely on physical violence. Some women experience total coercive control, which has psychological and physical effects, but it does not necessarily constitute a crime. That is a major issue.
How are we dealing with violent men?
One of the problems we are seeing in Canada, at least in Quebec, is that the programs for these men are inadequate. Oftentimes, they don't focus on the need to hold these men accountable for their violent behaviours.
That explains a lot of the comments we hear. “Well, yes, he was violent towards his partner, but he's still a good father.” However, all the research shows that that is completely false: violence against women and violence against children go and in hand. Regardless, the prevailing attitude is such that fathers are able to get custody of the children under the civil law system.
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I'll begin answering that by saying that I'm alive and my sister and my mothers are alive because of other women in our community being really committed to helping women escape violent situations. There's so much that's tied to that in every community.
These systems weren't made to keep women safe. If you think about when we try a case in a public court, you get a public prosecutor who represents the general safety of the public, and that's how they determine what's going to be prosecuted and what is not. Remember that women were not part of the public until 1929. The Criminal Code goes back a lot farther than that. The law has never really been adjusted to include women insofar as prosecutions or the way in which we do that work.
One thing we've been talking a lot about up north is having lawyers for the victims in the same way that a perpetrator gets a free lawyer who is publicly funded. I mean, perpetrators get lawyers twice. They get the public interest lawyer and then they get their defence lawyer. What that tells us, even without saying it, is that women are actually guilty until proven innocent by that process. The burden of proof is on them.
When we think about all of the little ways that we absent women from these systems and absent them having voice, and then tell them to go to a particular service that was actually designed to keep their voice down or to corral them—particularly for indigenous women, to clear them from the land—and that's supposed to be where we go for safety, it doesn't make sense in my brain, my heart or any part of my being. The first place I'm going to go and the first place my mom always took me was auntie's house.
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I sincerely believe that we need to open centres for violent men. I'm not talking about substance abuse treatment centres. I'm talking about real therapy centres. Our organization, La Maison des Guerrières, works with men who have violent and impulsive behaviours. As Ms. Monastesse said, programs or workshops provided by Paix and other such organizations do not constitute real therapy. It's a group of guys sitting down having a good time for an hour. What I do when I work with men is bring them face to face with their problems. They are intensive sessions.
I believe these men need the support of specialists. We have therapy programs in which specialists help men by giving them the tools they need to deal with substance abuse issues. Similarly, we need homes for violent men. As soon as police are called in to respond to a situation involving a violent man, he should be sent to a centre where experts could assess the level of danger he poses. If he's found to be very dangerous, for instance, the experts could decide that the case had to be referred back to the court and that the man had to be kept under surveillance.
The approach has to be intensive. These men don't have the right tools. The only tool they have is anger. They need to learn other tools, so they can cope with jealousy and other emotions properly, so they can understand why they react the way they do. I can speak to the results we've seen with the men we have worked with. I repeat, however, that they can't be men with narcissistic perversion. I am talking about men who are impulsive. Some of these men were sexually assaulted. Some experienced violence first-hand, having been abused by their parents or watched their mother be beaten. Violence is the only thing they know, so they behave violently in their own intimate relationships. It is society's job to educate them.
Violence prevention needs to happen in schools as well. There isn't—
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
I want to thank all of the witnesses for your stories. You're strong women for being able to come here and talk to us. I commend all of you.
I'd like to also recognize Sunder Singh. I know the amazing work that you do with women. I also know that you've won the Mayor's Community Safety Award as well as the Ministry of the Attorney General's Victim Services Award of Distinction. That's a huge honour, but the honour I have is knowing that you are there fighting for women.
One of the things that you said about the sentencing of men really hit a chord with me. We had a situation in Vaughan—and I know that you're aware of it—of a heart surgeon who was presented with divorce papers by his wife, who was also a physician. He decided to kill her. She had been speaking to her friends about the abuse that she had experienced with this man.
At the end of the day, we can take that individual, hopefully.... I like the idea of maybe removing the man and putting them in a home and getting them help and not always blaming the woman.
Would you say, Sunder—Ms. Singh—that sometimes men cannot be rehabilitated?
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Catch and release is not something that I will recommend. It's not my recommendation. A person who is violently hurting his partner should be put in jail for a very long time so that it affects his life and he learns what he has done wrong.
One thing that did work, MP Roberts, in India is a system in the jails called vipassana. It's a very strong therapy that strong criminals are given, and it brings about amazing changes in these criminals. It's a great therapy. A partnership, the PAR program, is also very, very good.
What I'm trying to say is that these criminals should not be given bail. Once they are put in jail, they have to go through lifetime or full-time mental counselling, and they require some sort of serious therapies to impact their mental state.
There are many, many criminals who have done horrible things. They are in jail. You can't change them. A majority of them can't be, but we have to use proper therapy. They still have to be in jail to be transformed. We cannot let them out, because if the law is soft, then these criminals will continue doing what they're doing, but if the law is changed and becomes stricter, you will see a reduction in domestic violence. You will see reduction in assault.
Sexual assault is so very common in this country that we can't even imagine. If you scratch somebody's life story, you will definitely find that there was some sort of sexual assault going on. Why is it going on—why, in this country? Why are the women not safe in this country?
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I agree with you that in the case of narcissistic perverts, it's a little more complicated.
Ms. Monastesse, you are no doubt familiar with the Hommes Québec network, a Quebec organization. Other organizations have undertaken a similar mission. In my neck of the woods, Beauce, there is an organization called Partage au Masculin. When I was hosting a public affairs radio show 30 or 40 years ago, I invited men to speak on-air. Even back then, we were starting to talk about men and asking them to express themselves. We learned a little more about their reality.
I may be an eternal optimist, but I would like to think that something can be done.
To your knowledge, what is happening in our schools? I ask because the committee did a study on intimate partner violence, and it seems that acting early, talking not just to men but also to young boys, is linked to success.
Are we doing enough outreach in schools?
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
I, too, would like to give my heartfelt thanks to the witnesses. They shared their observations on an extremely difficult issue. Their expertise and recommendations will help us a great deal. I hope that many judges, Crown attorneys and justices of the peace have listened to the testimony we've heard over the past few weeks. Changes are urgently needed, because the situation is dire.
I would like to address Ms. Monastesse, Ms. St‑Pierre Gaudreault and Ms. Jeanson. I'm going to continue along the same lines as my colleague Dominique Vien in terms of support. The situation is genuinely dire when it comes to prevention services and the measures that need to be put in place to help men.
In no way do I want to diminish the importance of women's shelter services and the support that must be provided to women. It is very important. That said, the only solution for men right now seems to be sending them to prison. We know that doesn't work. In many cases, they don't even go to prison.
Ms. Monastesse, you said that Ontario had put a framework in place. Would you be able to send any materials on that framework to the committee? Should we consider applying such a framework across the country?
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I say yes, absolutely. We teach them accountability, as Ms. Monastesse said, but we also listen to what they have experienced to understand the why and how.
Prevention in schools is also important. Young people today are not educated about violence, and they see a lot of it around them. They see people in street gangs, for example. In many cases, people are violent out of fear; violence is a self-defence mechanism. Often, as they grow up, young people adopt violent behaviours to look cool, but these are not the right tools. I believe that, by building people's self-esteem, we free them from racism, aggression and many other problems. When we build strong human beings, they don't need to destroy others.
We have to work on both fronts.
However, according to the research I've done everywhere, there are currently no therapies available to men. I'm not talking about little workshops once a week. I'm talking about therapy that men have to undergo in closed custody. Believe me, if you put a bunch of violent men together, their behaviours will come out. Their egos and control issues will emerge, among other things, and the people there will be able to work on those behaviours. I still think that's the best way to go.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
Thank you again to the witnesses for their testimony.
I appreciate the commentary from members of Parliament today and the responses that we're getting.
I do agree—and we've heard this from witnesses on this study and on others—that there needs to be a lot of focus put on rehabilitation and therapy. I very much agree that if we're going to break a cycle of violence, we certainly need those supports, and they are severely lacking.
I believe Ms. Gazan mentioned that penitentiaries are, in essence.... Excuse my language, but it's the best way I can describe what I've seen: They can be hellholes. They are very difficult places to be, and that stays with you for the rest of the day after you visit them.
What I struggle with is the idea of perpetual abusers. I believe it was Ms. Jeanson who mentioned that the man who abused her abused 10 women. We know that there are perpetual child sex abusers. I personally have a very difficult time believing that it is okay in a society to send those individuals directly to receive therapy. They should go spend some time in hell for a few years, in my opinion. Certainly the worst of the worst deserve that.
What I see happening in this country, through various criminal justice bills, is a weakening of that idea. The justice system for victims doesn't seem to be the priority. Sometimes very bad men who do vile things to many women and children need to go to jail, and that doesn't seem to be necessarily the default anymore in some cases. It's very upsetting to open a paper and see that some man who sexually abused many children is out after five years. I think that's a grave injustice to victims, and they live with that for a number of years.
I just wanted to mention that and get the perspective of Ms. Singh.
Do you have any thoughts to add to that, Ms. Singh?
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My mind is racing. There's so much that I want to talk about.
Yesterday, we had to see a case of a young child who had been sexually abused by the father. She is now six years old. The mother was abused by her husband. She saw the child naked on the bed and saw him with only his underwear on, and he beat her up when she witnessed it.
Anyway, she's now separated and she has the six-year-old child with her now. She is fighting like hell to keep the child. He has hired a private lawyer. He can afford it, but she was financially abused, so she can't afford a lawyer. This lawyer is actively fighting for the custody of this six-year-old girl who will end up with the father. She's panicking and she's just talking non-stop and is completely emotionally disturbed that that child will be taken away from her. What do you do in a case like that?
We've tried to address the preventive measures and what we need to do. School education is so very important, but people who are immigrants and newcomers are coming, and they're bringing their culture with them, and the children are affected and the women are affected.
This case yesterday is not the only one that we've seen. We've seen cases before as well when the child has been sexually abused, and the child is talking. She's saying on the video, “This is what dad did to me.” When I call the police, the police have closed the file because they're saying there's no evidence. Good Lord! You know, this woman is—
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I do want to touch on it, because it happens all the time, and it happens particularly in communities that are small, northern, rural, isolated, remote and indigenous.
It's a lack of resources. It's because we don't have enough bodies in the community. We keep getting money for program dollars, but then the program dollars dry up, and we go from having eight people to one person, so there aren't more people in the community to be able to do that kind of support. Then continuity becomes really important when we're trying to address these issues in smaller communities.
You said something about this idea of putting somebody in jail and the policing of indigenous women's bodies. I do also want to speak to that. We know that indigenous women are more policed than other people, more than indigenous people in general are in Canada. One of the things I'll offer before I have to leave is that there's been a lot of talk about punishment and throwing people in jail and what that looks like.
Punishment and accountability are two different concepts. One really invites the opportunity for someone to be accountable and rehabilitate their life, and the other just says that they're a horrible person who gets thrown away. This kind of culture of disposability isn't working either way. It's not working for any of us—men, women, any of our children, any of the future generations.
Instead of punishing, we need to rethink ways to invite accountability into our conversations so that people can take that step to rehabilitation and make the changes in their own world and in the way that they're choosing to treat other people.
In Quebec, there is a guide for police practices and how to intervene in cases of domestic or family violence or sexual assault. There has to be alignment because, unfortunately, while there is a guide in place, not all police officers follow it. That is already a fundamental problem.
That said, we have the Association des directeurs de police du Québec and the Canadian Association of Chiefs of Police. Police practices need to be harmonized at all levels. As you say, that applies to the municipal level, in addition to the provincial and federal levels. Police practices need to be aligned, especially since the Canadian Association of Chiefs of Police has already created a guide on police intervention in this area.
That's what the whole alignment issue is about. We need to harmonize police practices as well as other ones.
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We need a very targeted, collaborative approach that includes sustainable funding.
Quite often, the analogy that I use—and it has been used by other community organizations within Lethbridge—has been that, quite often, we are trying to make the best decision for the clients we see, the victims and the survivors, with one hand tied behind our back, and that is because of the options that are available. We want to be able to provide to that individual a suitable home, mental health resources or physicians, and we don't have those options, so it continues.
Yes, funding is a huge part of it, but it is not the only piece. We need to be doing this collaboratively and be very aligned. What we see in this system is that the funding and how we collaborate really vary by community. That makes a difference for those survivors.
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We have experienced quite a few times that the police officers have said, “The file is closed because there's no evidence, and we are completely helpless. Our hands are tied.” When the case goes to the police and to the court, the police tell us not to intervene. We can provide emotional support to the women, but other than that, we cannot do anything. It becomes a legal case, and there's nothing we can do.
I understand that the police are feeling helpless as well. They can do only so much, but it is the law that is soft, that ties the hands of the police, and they cannot do anything. Laws need to change. They need to become stricter, and authority has to be given to the police so that they are able to handle domestic violence cases.
Training for the police officers, judges and child protection agencies should become mandatory. They need to understand the emotional conditions of the women when they are abused. They need to understand deeply what the women go through and the impact of taking the children or threatening to take the child away from the mother at the same time as she's being abused. They need to understand that.
The emotional condition of the woman may make it appear from the outside that she's mentally unstable, but she's not. A mother cannot tolerate seeing her child being taken away, especially when she's beaten up at home, so they need to be very sensitive to that.
Thank you to all of our witnesses for this testimony.
Unfortunately, Dr. Buffalo is no longer here, but I want to go back to something she said that really piqued my interest.
She mentioned having a lawyer, paid for by the state, in court for the victim. We know that we have court support services for victims, but we heard at this committee that they don't always offer the type of support that victims need. If we had a lawyer paid for by the state, who is there to argue for the victim and the safety of the victim, do we think that would make a big difference?
I will start with you, Ms. Young.